By Lisa Respers France, CNN
(CNN) — Chynna Phillips Baldwin is candidly discussing her unique and evolving relationship with her husband.
In a recent video shared on her YouTube channel, the celebrated Wilson Phillips singer revealed that she and her husband, Billy Baldwin, have opted to live in two different cities across California, a decision that defies traditional relationship norms.
“Billy and I are sort of in this new kind of arrangement that is actually really working for me,” she expressed, highlighting her contentment with this unconventional setup. “I don’t know if it’s working for Billster, but I’m really happy with what we’re doing.”
Phillips Baldwin elaborated on how the new living arrangement came about, sharing that she proposed to her husband, “Why don’t we just do a little test run to see what it feels like to have me in Santa Barbara, you in Beverly Hills and then we flip-flop?” This adventurous approach highlights their willingness to explore new dynamics in their long-standing relationship.
In the interim, she emphasized the importance of maintaining connection, stating, “We have date nights together, we have therapy, we have dinner with the children, and we go to the beach or the museum.” These activities demonstrate their commitment to nurturing their bond while navigating the complexities of love and life.
The couple, who sealed their marriage vows in 1995, are proud parents to three children: daughters Jameson, 24, and Brooke, 19, and son Vance, 22, with whom they continue to share fulfilling family experiences.
While Baldwin initially displayed some hesitation regarding this new living arrangement, his wife noted that he was still willing to give it a chance, showcasing a mutual understanding and willingness to adapt.
The pair discussed their unconventional living situation during a light-hearted FaceTime exchange in the video, with Phillips Baldwin expressing optimism, telling her husband, “I think that we’re onto something.”
“I really do, because we enjoy each other’s company. It’s so hard to articulate to people that we’re madly in love, we really enjoy being around one another, we cherish our marriage, we don’t ever want to separate,” she passionately stated, emphasizing the depth of their connection.
However, she added an interesting perspective: “We just need a little bit of a time apart because we are sort of an allergy to one another. And it’s OK. I’m sure lots of different couples are allergies to each other.” This metaphor cleverly captures the nuances of their relationship.
Baldwin interjected with humor, stating, “The reality is you have the allergy,” bringing a lighthearted touch to their conversation.
“I have a certain energy that makes you have a histamine… see, your back just tweaked just now,” he playfully observed, showcasing their ability to maintain a fun and engaging dialogue about their relationship.
The couple has previously opened up about their marital struggles, including a challenging six-month separation they experienced, shedding light on the resilience of their bond.
In a heartfelt exchange back in January on her channel, they discussed how they had struggled to align after Phillips Baldwin’s spiritual journey led her in a different direction: “But I still absolutely love you, absolutely adore you, and completely support you,” Baldwin affirmed to his wife at that moment. “That’s why I’m sitting here now.”
Ltifacted yet flexible approach to their marriage. To delve deeper into this unconventional arrangement, we have Chynna Phillips Baldwin with us today.
**Interviewer:** Chynna, thank you for joining us. Your relationship with Billy certainly raises eyebrows in terms of traditional marriage norms. Could you tell us more about how you both arrived at this decision to live in separate cities?
**Chynna Phillips Baldwin:** Thank you for having me! It’s something I’ve been exploring in my mind for a while. I suggested to Billy, “Why don’t we do a test run? Let’s try living in different cities and see how that feels for us.” I think it was a leap of faith, but it really is working for me right now.
**Interviewer:** That sounds intriguing! What are some of the benefits you’ve found in this new arrangement so far?
**Chynna Phillips Baldwin:** I feel like I have more space to breathe and pursue my interests. It also keeps the relationship fresh. We’ve always been good at prioritizing our connection, so we still go on date nights, have family meals, and spend quality time together. Those things haven’t changed.
**Interviewer:** Some might say that living apart could be detrimental to a marriage. How do you address those concerns?
**Chynna Phillips Baldwin:** I totally understand that perspective. It’s definitely not the conventional route! But for us, it’s about quality over quantity. We make sure the time we spend together is meaningful. We also do therapy, which helps us navigate any challenges that arise.
**Interviewer:** That’s a great perspective. Have your kids reacted to this new arrangement?
**Chynna Phillips Baldwin:** They’ve been really supportive! They see how happy it makes us, and we still have a strong family unit. We all cherish our time together, whether we’re at the beach or just hanging out at home.
**Interviewer:** what advice would you give to couples who may be struggling to maintain their connection in traditional arrangements?
**Chynna Phillips Baldwin:** I’d say don’t be afraid to think outside the box. Every relationship is unique, and what works for one couple might not work for another. Communication is key—understand each other’s wants and needs, and don’t shy away from experimenting with new dynamics.
**Interviewer:** Thank you, Chynna! Your insights are truly refreshing, and it’s wonderful to hear about the balance and happiness you’ve found in your marriage.
**Chynna Phillips Baldwin:** Thank you! It’s been an enlightening journey, and I hope more people feel empowered to do what works for them.
