My husband insisted that the feelings between him and his ex-girlfriend were only close friends and confidants. Both have never said love or slept together, how can it be called adultery.
My husband is 39 years old this year, his ex-girlfriend is a classmate since middle school. The two fell in love before he married me, but then she “kicked” my husband to get married.
From the day he fell in love with me, my husband was always devoted to me, so I never thought that I would have to work hard to be jealous. When I asked, my husband told me that his ex-girlfriend also had 2 children.
My husband is also a good husband. He is filial to both sides of his parents, loves his wife, loves his children. He put on a helmet for me, took me to work.
In the middle of the night I complained regarding being hungry, he didn’t mind going to buy me food. Needless to say, he’s great. How much money do you earn from work, you give it all to me, there is no black fund and red fund.
I never suspected anything between my husband and his ex-husband until I read a comment where she tagged my husband’s name in a closed group. In the comment, she recalled that she used to go with my husband to Ban Gioc waterfall to play.
My husband also commented: “Next time I’m free, I’ll take you there to play, let’s review old memories.”
When I read my husband’s comment, I was shocked. While I suggested that my husband take my mother and children on a trip, he complained to go away, bringing the children with him. However, he had the pleasure of taking his ex-lover to review old memories.
Recently, I saw that my husband kept chatting until late at night, but when I checked in, all messages were deleted. I suspect that my husband and ex-girlfriend are having an affair.
I was just planning to go spying on my husband and found out he used to go out to lunch with his ex. After that, the two went to the cafe to talk.
I stalked for a few days before I caught sight of my husband holding hands and shouldering his ex and possibly his current lover. After taking pictures and filming the clip, I jumped out and made a um.
Hugging an ex-lover who still argues “indifferently”
But contrary to what I thought, my husband and she were very calm. Despite my cursing, shouting, and tears, she told me I was misunderstanding:Khoa and I are not having an affair, we are just close friends.”
My husband yelled at me, calling me ungrateful, shocked: “Have you caught me with Huyen on top and bottom and told me to have an affair?“, he asked.
“The two of you just held hands, shoulder-to-shoulder.” I replied.
“It’s just the “social” actions of friends with each other. I don’t understand, stop going home, don’t draw attention to embarrass me.” husband yelled at me.
When I got home, I still insisted that my husband and my ex were having an affair but he said they were close friends so it was normal to act like that. He said, I haven’t caught both of you in bed, so I don’t have the right to slander him like that.
Hearing my husband say this, I give up, everyone. I asked my husband if I had a boyfriend who is also a close friend and confidant like this, would he agree. He also nodded making my blood boil. According to everyone, what is the relationship between my husband and the other ex? What should I do now?