Once “falling in love” when drunk, must regret it for life
The last Lunar New Year is a time for many couples and couples in love to be close to each other following a long time apart. However, there are still many people who, for some reason, have to celebrate the New Year in the scene where you are one place, one child is another.
Doctor Le Thi Kim Dung, Institute of Reproductive Health (Hanoi) said that the case of Tuan Phong (27 years old, in Hanoi) is typical.
When he met Dr. Dung, Tuan Phong said that he and his girlfriend were in a long distance relationship. On the occasion of the new year, because he was busy with work in Ho Chi Minh City, his girlfriend might not go to Hanoi to celebrate New Year’s Eve. During the 6 months before Tet, despite being apart, he always “keeps himself” so that when he meets his girlfriend, both will be sublimated.
According to doctors, drunkenness is the cause of many people’s tragic encounters during sex. (Illustration)
On the evening of the 3rd day of the New Year, Tuan Phong and his group of friends organized a meal. When drunk, the group looks for partners to satisfy their needs. The girl that Tuan Phong chose was introduced as having a healthy sex life, without social diseases.
Their love at that time was very sublime. However, a week later, Tuan Phong found that the private area had red pimples that caused itching and burning pain. He should have gone to a reputable facility to examine and treat the disease, but because he was afraid, Tuan Phong went to an informal clinic, making the disease worse.
When going to see Dr. Dung, Tuan Phong was diagnosed with gonorrhea. Dr. Dung said that the male patient not only took a long time to treat, but also had to say goodbye to his girlfriend because he felt regret, fear of infecting his lover, as well as low self-esteem regarding his sex life.
Don’t have sex when you’re drunk
According to Dr. Dung, the fact that couples have an accident in the bedroom when “falling in love” during Tet is largely due to alcohol and bad posture.
Dr. BS Nguyen Dinh Lien, Head of the Department of Renal Surgery, Urology and Andrology, E Hospital (Hanoi) also agreed with the above opinion. Doctor Lien said that when men get drunk, it will be difficult for men to control their sexual behavior, leading to the wrong relationship with the wrong person or excessive sex with a difficult position, prone to accidents.
Doctor Le Thi Kim Dung is examining a female patient.
Doctor Lien said, once gave first aid to a 45-year-old man who broke his penis due to having sex in the wrong position with his wife when he was drunk on the 4th day of the Lunar New Year. Fortunately, the male patient was taken to the hospital in time, so he might protect his penis. However, since then, this man has always felt insecure when he is close to his wife.
Talking regarding the relationship between husband and wife on Tet holiday, Ms. Huong Linh (37 years old, in Ho Chi Minh City) is both scared and embarrassed. She said that on the days of the Lunar New Year, almost every day her husband drank to get drunk. When he got home, he refused to take a bath, rinse his mouth and asked his wife to meet the demand.
“When I was drunk, my husband had a violent relationship and took a long time to ejaculate. Sometimes, when the couple “falls in love”, my body is full of bruises. This year’s New Year’s Eve, I clean the house, go to the market, Cooked offerings, took care of two children, and he went to eat all day all day. When he got home, he reeked of alcohol, demanding that I have to eat. Because I was tired, I refused.
However, at the party on the followingnoon of the first day, full of parents, siblings on both sides of the family, he got drunk and accused me of “starving” my husband. At that time, although I was very angry and embarrassed, but on the first day of the year, I might only avoid it,” Huong Linh shared.
According to Dr. Dung, sex is the sublimation of love, so couples should do it when they feel happy and enjoy themselves. However, both need to share and agree with each other, especially when starting to try strange positions.
The fact that the husband wants to “renovate”, but the wife does not agree, tries to please or is forced to easily lead to consequences or sexual problems.
According to doctors, couples should have a healthy sex life to stay healthy.
According to Dr. Lien, having sex when drunk, men are not only prone to sexual accidents, but also easily lead to exhaustion, cerebrovascular accident, stroke, etc. In the case of a relationship like “eating cake to pay” Men are also susceptible to social diseases from their partners, as in the case of Mr. Tuan Phong mentioned above.
Doctors emphasized, not only during Tet but at any time of having sex, we should also practice safe and healthy behavior. If unfortunately there is an accident in the bedroom”, couples should go to reputable facilities to get the right diagnosis, timely treatment, and avoid bad situations.
* Character names in the post have been changed.
