Are you going through that stage of relationship with your child, when he is not even ready to talk to you? Although there was a time, when he could not live even a moment without you. So maybe you are the reason behind the distance of this relationship knowingly or unknowingly. You need to bridge the gap, but how?
After becoming a parent, their children become the center of all their attention. Their whole world revolves around their child, every parent may have a different way of raising their child, but they all have the same goal. And that is the welfare of the child. But always imposing your will, your thoughts and your choice on the child in this effort can have negative effects on him.
What to do if coffee and salt get wet during rainy season?
As a parent it is your responsibility to provide proper guidance to your child. Help the child choose a path he likes and follow it. When parents start ignoring their child’s wishes and aspirations, the child also starts to drift away from them.
Overprotecting
Every mother loves her child. But when this love turns into protection and unnecessary surveillance, they themselves do not know. If the child feels like four eyes are watching over him all the time, it does not allow his personality to emerge. Unnecessary interference with the child’s walking, sitting, walking or playing makes the child’s personality unbalanced.
Excessive freedom
Once upon a time, this principle was very important in parenting: feed the sleeping man, but watch with the eyes of a lion. But now the times have changed and along with it the thinking of parents has also changed, today’s parents understand that there should not be too many restrictions on children. This thinking sometimes creates a complicated situation for them. They become so accustomed to the freedom given to them that even a moment of slavery is not acceptable to them. And when their arbitrariness creates problems in their personality and future, the importance of parents is not much for them.
Do everything right, but with balance
Parents have to strike a great balance to steer children in the right direction. That is, children should not be restricted so much that they feel their hands and feet are tied, nor should they be completely ignored, but they need to be accompanied every step of the way, so that they realize that there is such a being, Who is ready to walk step by step with him even in difficult times. A constant companion, who is guiding him in the right direction to enlighten him in all aspects of life.
Remove the gaps
It is not always necessary that the child is wrong and you are right. Sometimes parents are also at fault. Therefore, if you want to improve your relationship with your child, first persuade yourself to change. For this, the parent’s approach should be one. Children always suffer from confusion due to different thinking and attitudes between parents.
If the child exhibits a certain behavior, do not immediately react to it, but try to find out the reason. As the child grows up, his preferences and likes and dislikes also change. It is the responsibility of parents to find new ways to cope with these changing trends. Find new ways to spend time with them.
Do not give advice to children all the time. Thus, stop comparing your child with other children.