2024-04-23 06:20:53
I was attracted by his remarkable elegance, his impeccable white dress, ironed with great care, the breath of his ghutra, the size of his beard, the shine of his shoes, his calm and sober gait, the smell of his perfume, and the features of his face, all the reasons that made me identify with him and even fall in love with him to the point of madness…
The day he came to propose to me, I was thirty-five years old. Everything happened normally and even naturally, like any engaged couple, he came every followingnoon to have lunch with me following he finished work and then went home. Because my father was strict, we didn’t go out together or sit alone, so my mother sat with us all the time. During our engagement period, until we got married, the days passed quickly and my attachment and love. for him, it increased a lot, but each time his mother told me not to think regarding having children at all, and I didn’t know why she gave me this strange command. Is there a mother in the world who doesn’t want to see her grandchildren. ?
Late night misfortune
The biggest surprise started while I was sleeping one night. I heard him shout at the top of his voice: Get up, get out of the house. He threw my clothes and belongings on the floor and destroyed all the furniture in the room. in a crazy and hysterical way. He even strangled me with his strong hands. Without the goodness of God and his mother, I would have died on my watch, and I actually left at night. at my parents’ house, surprised and disappointed, wondering what happened to him…?
After this incident, my family and I learned that my husband was suffering from psychological disorders, which he did not specify from what his brothers said, and that his calm throughout the past period was that is, from the days of our engagement until regarding a few days before the night of the incident, he took his medication under the supervision of his brothers, which put him in a completely normal state, but that s was subsequently stopped.
The woman is wise
In accordance with the saying “Marry him so that he is reasonable”, my husband did not reason, but his condition worsened day by day due to his refusal of the medicine, and his condition went from one state of elegance. in a state that resembles that of a beggar. Here I decided to come back to him despite my family’s warnings and their insistence that I divorce, especially following his attacks increased and he went out into the streets. , distracted from the world, delirious with incomprehensible words and fired from work due to his absence, and because I was in love with him, I refused to part with him and decided to help him recover and to convince him to take medicine, and in fact, when I left his house at night, expelled from him, he dragged me from the family house to his house at night without anyone knowing.
My family was upset
When my family learned in the morning that I had left them at my husband’s house, they were very upset, especially my father, who was hurt by my return to a husband considered “crazy” by society. But I didn’t cope. with this description, I found him more like a psychological patient who needed treatment, follow-up, love and tenderness. In fact, I worked to care for him day and night and endure his difficult disorders, which made me completely isolated. and away from everyone around him except me, and during this time I became pregnant with my first child. He didn’t understand my pregnancy as if it was the first time he heard regarding the presence of a fetus in a woman’s womb. He laughed a lot until he transformed into another person, more violent, and a new attack began with him and he began to throw everything, hysterically he leaned once morest the wall and screamed : “Get out of the house now. »
Hit and run
My life with him was back and forth. He kicked me out at night and dragged me to his house the next night, and all this in front of my father, who might no longer stand my husband’s scandals and disturbances. this began to affect the neighbors, until I had given birth to my child at my parents’ house quite quietly, and before I had finished forty days following my birth, he came and asked me to accompany him to his house , I refused to come back with him. because I was not yet forty, but he insisted and tried to hit me, and as I was afraid that my family would hear the sound of our arguments, I went out at night with him and my child as if ‘habit.
New baby
My child was less than forty days old when I became pregnant once more, which further increased my family’s anger at me, especially his mother, who warned me once morest having children with a father who might not be counted on to take care of himself. I have heard many times that we married him to be reasonable and to please him, not to have children.
Permanent isolation
After my second child, my husband became a calmer man with a different personality, withdrawn and isolated from the outside world. I was even the one who gave him his bath, served him food and locked the door. room door with the key following taking the medicine according to the teachings of his brothers and his mother, and he knew nothing regarding his children, although I wished that one day he would feel their presence, and Me. tried several times to talk to him regarding it, but he doesn’t listen to me, because he is busy with hallucinations that I don’t know regarding, and regarding the number of jinns that inhabit his head and his room.
Sudden disappearance
One day I woke up as usual to make his breakfast and opened the bedroom door which had been closed since the night before, but I didn’t find him. I searched the whole house for him and found no trace of him. him. I went to announce his disappearance to his mother and she answered me under her sheet: He is gone and will never come back.
What happened that night and Majid was not informed? I thought regarding many questions for months until one of his brothers decided to tell me that I might sit in my apartment and raise my two children in peace and quiet, as long as their father was at home. the psychiatric hospital…!
A woman who cannot reveal her name
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