A woman in Sichuan, China, suffered from uremia and chose to “break up” in order not to delay her boyfriend. (Picture / Retrieved from Weibo)
Because love chooses to separate! Liu Yan, a 24-year-old woman from Sichuan, China, originally discussed marriage with her boyfriend, but she was diagnosed with “uremia”. , distressing and touching.
According to the “Red Star News” report, Liu Yan and her boyfriend in Jiangsu met and fell in love in 2015. After 3 years, she brought her boyfriend home to see her family, which was also recognized by her family. The two originally planned to buy a house and settle down in Jiangsu, and would shoot a wedding dress at the end of 2019. , Unexpectedly, she suddenly developed vomiting, numbness in hands and feet, etc., and was diagnosed with uremia (CKD5) following examination. Later, due to her serious condition, in order to save medical expenses, she chose to return to the hospital in her hometown in Sichuan for treatment. , so her boyfriend had to return to Jiangsu.
Liu Yan and her boyfriend canceled the wedding, but no one said goodbye, so they separated naturally. It is understood that her family is a low-income household. The grandfather in his 80s is hunchbacked, deaf, and has high blood pressure. His father has vision problems since childhood, suffering from high blood pressure and deafness. In addition, there is a younger sister who is still studying at home. She has this disease and makes the family more burdened.
In order to reduce the financial pressure, Liu Yan began to look for a job, and she was working part-time while receiving treatment. She always encouraged herself on the Douyin platform, “The best way to live in life is to go with the flow and live with the flow”, “Everything I’m afraid of is here. What I can do is to make all the psychological preparations and face it.” Later, when faced with the choice of whether or not to have a kidney transplant, her experience was reported by netizens, and she raised more than 100,000 yuan for the surgery. I mightn’t wait for a suitable kidney, and following some struggle, I finally accepted my father’s kidney donation.
After Liu Yan’s successful kidney transplant, she thanked everyone for their help on the Douyin platform, “If it weren’t for everyone’s help, even if my father agreed to donate me a kidney, we wouldn’t be able to afford the cost of the operation.” For her, it was a brand new start in her life. , but she didn’t want to mention her boyfriend once more, “I hope to forget him slowly”, and didn’t want to disturb each other’s life. My father also supported this decision, because the two have their own lives and different family situations. It can get better and better, and I also hope that my daughter can have a good development in life and love.