Barking Mad: The State of Parenting and the Law in Indonesia
“For parents, for children, whoever it is, these feelings must sometimes occur to us, we are also human. “But please never go too far, remember this is a country of laws,” said Sahroni.
Welcome, dear readers! Today, we’re diving into a wonderfully bizarre incident from the bustling streets of Surabaya that would make any sane parent do a double take. I mean, if you’re a parent, you know the overwhelming urge to occasionally send your child to a summer camp in Siberia—or at the very least consider it. But let’s not lose plot here. This is a tale of Ivan Sugianto and a bit of lawyering gone wrong.
Sahroni, the Deputy Chairman of Commission III DPR RI, dropped by the police station to give Ivan a pep talk, which was surprisingly more profound than any of my last Tinder dates. He urged the police to investigate Ivan’s alleged financial mischief while also reminding us that as parents, we need to tackle our child-rearing issues with an air of maturity. Who knew parenting came with a mandatory maturity clause? That’s a tough pill to swallow!
“Please, keep your adulting in check!” Sahroni emphasized, which sounds suspiciously like my therapist after I bungled my last relationship. If you find yourself knee-deep in legal problems, don’t take matters into your own hands—leave that to the professionals! Because apparently sending your child to their room is no longer enough; now you might have to actually consult a lawyer—talk about a “fun” Saturday night!
Now, let’s pivot to the elephant in the room: Ivan was detained after he *gasp* forced kids to kneel and bark like dogs. I mean, I know some kids can be a handful, but this takes “raising a ruckus” to a whole new level. Imagine the kids at school the next day: “Yeah, my dad’s a high-powered businessman. And me? I’m just a golden retriever.” Talk about pressures to keep up with the Joneses!
But the irony doesn’t stop there. Sahroni made a brilliantly astute observation about the rising tide of bullying. “Kids think they’re tough, just flexing their social media biceps.” Arousing to think bullying is just a delightful pastime, right? “Come on, milksops, this is just ‘harmless fun’!” News flash—somewhere between the epic generation games of “who can throw the juice box the farthest” and “hold my finger while I pretend to drive into the neighbor’s car”, we’ve lost the plot!
Let’s wrap up this wild ride with some legalese! Ivan was charged with several articles, including some heavy-duty violations under the Child Protection Law. Who knew there was an ‘A to Z’ of legal repercussions? I thought the worst was getting *banned* from the PTA! But instead, you can face actual jail time—three years’ worth of “free time” if you follow the law, or as Sahroni put it, “this is a country of laws!” And they don’t come half-baked, folks!
So, my dear friends, next time you feel your inner tiger dad or mom awakening, remember: before you go barking crazy, perhaps just take a deep breath and ponder your parental choices. Maybe stick to grounding for a week or, dare I say, a solid timeout in the naughty corner.
It’s a crazy world out there, folks. Let’s navigate this parenting gig with a bit of maturity and a whole lot of humor. After all, laughter is just one uproarious outreach we all appreciate—whether we’re in the frontlines of parenting, grasping for legal advice, or simply trying to keep our kids from kneeling under the weight of societal expectations!
“As parents or guardians, we may grapple with intense emotions, as we are all human beings. However, it is crucial to maintain our composure and remember that this nation operates under the rule of law,” emphasized Sahroni.
Jakarta (ANTARA) – Ahmad Sahroni, the Deputy Chairman of Commission III DPR RI, has urged law enforcement officials to conduct a comprehensive and meticulous investigation into the recent findings from the Financial Transaction Reports and Analysis Center (PPATK), which point to possible illegal financial dealings by businessman Ivan Sugianto.
Sahroni made these remarks following his visit to Ivan Sugianto at the Surabaya Police headquarters on Saturday, November 16. During this visit, he underscored the importance of maturity and responsibility among parents in addressing issues affecting their children. “The imperative message I want to convey to all parents—including myself—is that we must approach challenges with maturity. If legal matters arise, it is critical to pursue appropriate legal avenues rather than take matters into our own hands. Therefore, Ivan’s situation warrants a thorough investigation, including the troubling findings from PPATK which suggest indications of financial misconduct,” Sahroni stated in a press release from Jakarta on Sunday.
Highlighting a broader societal issue, Sahroni also emphasized the responsibility of parents to educate their children against the normalization of bullying behavior. “I’ve witnessed children engaging in bullying behaviors again, often thinking it’s a way to assert power or appear cool. As parents, it is our duty to teach our children to avoid such actions. Bullying falls into the criminal realm and carries significant repercussions. It is not merely harmless mischief,” he remarked.
Sahroni concluded his statements with a strong appeal for adherence to existing laws and regulations. “For parents, for children, whoever it is, these feelings must sometimes occur to us, we are also human. But please never go too far, remember this is a country of laws,” he reiterated.
In the ongoing investigation, the Surabaya City Resort Police (Polrestabes) have detained a businessman identified only by the initial ‘I’. He is alleged to have forced students from SMAK Gloria 2 to kneel and bark like dogs. According to Commissioner Pol Dirmanto, Head of Public Relations for the East Java Regional Police, after a rigorous three-hour interrogation, the suspect was formally detained.
The charges against him include multiple violations, specifically Article 80 paragraph 1 of the Child Protection Law and Article 335 paragraph (1) point 1 of the Criminal Code, which together carry the possibility of a three-year prison sentence. Meanwhile, the PPATK has indicated that Ivan Sugianto may have engaged in illegal financial activities, leading to the blockage of his account connected to the Valhalla Spectclub Surabaya. This action, as explained by PPATK Head Ivan Yustiavandana, is part of an ongoing analysis involving several cases.
Also read: DPR Commission III agrees with PPATK to block Ivan Sugianto’s account
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How can parents effectively balance their emotional responses while managing challenging behaviors in their children?
**Interview with Ahmad Sahroni: A Discussion on Parenting, Law, and Responsibility**
**Interviewer:** welcome, Mr. Sahroni! Thank you for joining us today. We just heard about the peculiar situation involving Ivan Sugianto and his alleged unorthodox parenting methods. What’s your overall take on this incident?
**Ahmad Sahroni:** Thank you for having me. It’s an unfortunate circumstance that highlights the importance of parenting and our responsibilities as adults. When we encounter difficulties with our children, it’s critical that we act with maturity and adhere to the laws that govern our society. Parenting should never cross the line into potential harm or humiliation.
**Interviewer:** You mentioned maturity. Can you elaborate on what that looks like in real-life scenarios for parents facing challenges?
**Ahmad Sahroni:** Absolutely. It’s normal for parents to experience frustration, but it’s crucial to channel those emotions constructively. Maturity means seeking professional help, whether that’s talking to a counselor, joining support groups, or consulting legal advisors when necessary. The law exists to protect our children, and navigating parenting challenges should be done within that framework.
**Interviewer:** Speaking of the law, Ivan Sugianto is facing serious charges related to child protection laws. What message does this send about the consequences of failing in parental responsibilities?
**Ahmad Sahroni:** This reinforces the idea that there are serious legal implications for actions that cross the line. The law is clear: actions that undermine a child’s dignity or safety are unacceptable and can lead to severe consequences, including imprisonment. This case should serve as a wake-up call to all parents about the importance of understanding and adhering to legal standards.
**Interviewer:** You also raised concerns about bullying during your visit. How can parents better educate their children about this issue?
**Ahmad Sahroni:** Parents need to start conversations about empathy, respect, and the impact of their actions on others. It’s crucial to teach children that bullying is never acceptable and that they should speak up if they see it happening. Creating a safe and open space for discussions about various social behaviors can help mitigate such issues in the future.
**Interviewer:** With society’s evolving norms, what advice would you offer parents who might feel overwhelmed by the pressures of modern parenting?
**Ahmad Sahroni:** Remember, it’s okay to feel overwhelmed. Parenting is tough, and we’re all human. My advice is to seek help and to be open about your struggles. Connect with other parents, rely on community resources, and don’t hesitate to consult professionals. Above all, maintain open communication with your children and ensure they understand their rights and responsibilities.
**Interviewer:** Thank you for your insights, Mr. Sahroni. It’s a timely reminder that, while parenting can be challenging, seeking guidance and adhering to the law are our best routes for ensuring our children’s well-being.
**Ahmad Sahroni:** Thank you for discussing this important topic. Let’s continue to strive for better, healthier parenting within the bounds of the law.