2024-11-16 02:55:00
On November 16, Pride Day is celebrated in the streets of Córdoba. Thousands of people gathered in the city center for a day of protests and celebrations.
This day allows us to reflect on social inequality and discrimination against LGBTIQ+ people. Many of those attending the march come from families raised in dissent, struggle and love.
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Romina, 37, identifies as a lesbian and is the mother of 17-year-old Valentina. Romina had been dating for five years and the three lived together in a neighbor’s house in Southland. Valentina is currently completing her studies at a school in the city center.
“My main focus in raising my daughter is that she has the freedom to choose everything. To ask, to train, to fight for your rights. I didn’t have that opportunity growing up and I want to give her that Possibilities,” said Romina, who was born in a sparsely populated city in Santa Fe province.
“I always tell him not to categorize people, that pink is not just for girls and blue is not just for boys. Everything has to be more equal,” he explains.
She said they all learned a lot while growing up. The new generation has some more natural social issues and raises new questions.
“I thought there was something wrong with me because I didn’t like any boys. But there was an obligation to obey predetermined tasks. After so many years of struggle, today Valentina can have a naturalness and freedom that I did not have as a child,” she reflects .
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Cecilia and Silvia are the mothers of Juana, who is now 13 years old. Although they divorced some time ago, they still raise their daughter together. “Like any other couple, one breaks up,” Cecilia said.
They wanted to be mothers, and finally their daughter was born in 2011.
“We have raised a daughter with a beautiful, very unique appearance. She has the tools to tell and discuss. We are making history together with our family. We have a responsibility to make the world a kinder and more sustainable place in terms of law,” he said .
“Where did the storks go?” is the title of a story they compiled and edited for kindergartens and schools that talks about the diversity of families. They try to change spaces where their daughters feel represented. The story is available for free viewing on YouTube.
After the child was born, they began to organize various family gatherings, which they held for eight consecutive years. “We want people to see that family is more than just parents and comes in many forms.”
Cecilia said there were times when she felt unsafe growing up, which made her more concerned about violence against children. They choose to occupy spaces where they feel comfortable and respected.
“My generation has experienced a lot of violence. We have friends who are gay and lesbian and they were systematically assaulted in elementary school,” he said.
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Ariel, Guillermo and their son David
Ariel and Guillermo met in 2001 in Buenos Aires. Ariel lives there and Guillermo is from Cordoba but decided to celebrate his birthday in the capital. They met through mutual friends. “From the first time we met, we were smitten,” Ariel exclaimed.
From that moment on, they were never separated. Together they moved to Córdoba and lived here for many years while courting.
They always harbor the fantasy of becoming parents. At that time, there were no equal marriage laws and the only possibility of becoming a parent was unilateral singlehood.
“In 2010, with the law, we no longer had an excuse and our desire to raise children together could now come true,” Ariel said. In 2011, they finally decided to take the plunge and became one of the first same-sex couples to legally marry.
That year, they signed up as potential adopters. They fill out hundreds of forms and are placed on a list that is updated every year if they are not selected. For three years, they waited and gave up.
“One person told us that it was difficult because at that time the authorities would not allow gay couples to have children because they had a lot of prejudices,” he said.
Without giving up on their goal of becoming parents, they signed up to be a transit family, which is how they met their son David, who was 11 years old and living in several houses with some of his siblings. They met on Friday in Senaf and from that moment on, all meetings were filled with emotion. David chose them from their first weekend together.
They lived together until a few years later, when a judge summoned the boy, who said he wanted to continue living with them. The magistrate made an exception and granted the adoption. “He chose us, and all we do is try to be better people,” he said.
David and Ariel return to school with Guillermo. I haven’t been to school for two years. They provided him with help and support. He attended a nearby public school, completed high school and is currently studying to be a Therapeutic Peer Technician.
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“Family pride took on a much stronger meaning. He wanted us to go to school hand in hand with him. When we arrived, the teachers made the sign of the cross when they saw us,” she said.
“We are a normal family. Just like everyone else. We choose each other all the time. In some programs the box that says “Mom” or “Dad” still appears. It happens to us everywhere. But If there is a clear purpose, there is no need to doubt it,” David concluded.
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How do events like Pride Day foster a sense of community among LGBTIQ+ individuals and their allies?
### Interview with Romina: Celebrating Pride Day in Córdoba
**Editor:** Thank you for joining us today, Romina, especially on such an important occasion as Pride Day. Can you share your feelings about the significance of this day and the celebrations in Córdoba?
**Romina:** Thank you for having me! Pride Day is incredibly significant because it brings together thousands of voices to combat social inequality and discrimination against the LGBTIQ+ community. It’s not just a celebration; it’s also a protest against hate and a call for visibility. It’s empowering to see so many people, including families like my own, standing up for our rights.
**Editor:** You mentioned your daughter, Valentina. How do you approach parenting in the context of raising an LGBTIQ+ child in today’s society?
**Romina:** My priority is to give Valentina the freedom to choose and express herself without fear of judgment. Growing up, I felt constrained by societal expectations, and I want to ensure she has a different experience. I often tell her not to categorize people based on gender norms—like believing pink is only for girls. It’s about fostering an environment of equality and naturalness.
**Editor:** That’s a powerful message. You’ve also spoken about the changes you’ve seen over the years in attitudes towards LGBTIQ+ issues. How do you see the new generation’s perspective?
**Romina:** I’ve noticed that the younger generation is more open and accepting of diverse identities. They ask questions that challenge the status quo, and they’re less afraid to speak out. Valentina can navigate her identity in ways I couldn’t at her age, and that gives me hope. It shows that despite past struggles, we’re moving toward a more inclusive society.
**Editor:** You highlighted the importance of community and support. How do you believe events like Pride Day contribute to that?
**Romina:** Events like Pride Day build community and provide a platform for voices that are often marginalized. It’s a space to meet other families, share experiences, and celebrate our identities collectively. It empowers individuals to feel seen and to understand they are not alone. This solidarity is essential for combatting hate and discrimination.
**Editor:** Thank you for sharing your insights, Romina. Any final thoughts you’d like to express on this day?
**Romina:** I want to encourage everyone to continue fighting for equality. Our voices matter, and every step we take—whether through celebrations or protests—brings us closer to a world where everyone can live authentically without fear. Happy Pride Day to everyone!
**Editor:** Happy Pride Day, Romina. Thank you for your time and for sharing your story with us!