Remembering John Joseph (Jack) Carter: A Life Well Lived
Ah, gathering to pay respects is bit like a family reunion, but with less bickering over the remote and a whole lot more respect. Speaking of gatherings, let’s talk about Jack Carter, a man who left us on November 14, making his exit with the same finesse as a magician at the end of a poorly reviewed act.
Your Run-of-the-Mill Superhero
Jack was not just a beloved husband to his lovely wife, Elizabeth (Betty), but also a mighty patriarch. If you measured love in offspring, he was practically overflowing! With a brood that includes Mary, Ann, Liz, John, Denis, and the late Christopher, he clearly took the phrase “making a family” to heart.
Now, one might wonder how a guy with six kids juggled it all. The secret? Unwavering charm and perhaps a bit of divine intervention. But let’s not forget the other family; the one made up of grandchildren—his legacy that keeps multiplying like rabbits. We’re talking about a grand total of 14 great-grandchildren! That’s a full cast for a soap opera, folks. You might even say his family tree looks more like an octopus!
Brotherhood and Beyond
As if that wasn’t enough to keep him busy, Jack was also adored by his siblings, both the living and those who’ve departed. It’s a unique club, the “late siblings club”, where, once you’re in, the chatter never stops—kind of like a really intense group chat but with way more spirited debates and fewer emojis.
Final Curtain Call
Now, let’s talk about the send-off, which will be taking place at the popular Holy Family Church, Askea. So you know it’s the place to be, right? Who needs social media when you have the details of a funeral? You’ll find family and friends hanging out (with sad smiles) as they pay their respects—because let’s face it, if there’s one time you can avoid small talk and just reminisce about the good times, it’s at a funeral.
Plenty of folks are expected at Carpenter Bros. Funeral Home too; after all, if you’ve never been mentioned in a eulogy, did you even live? Don’t forget to bring your condolences, perhaps a decent joke about how all of us are just “hot air balloons waiting to deflate,” and for heaven’s sake, make sure not to bring any house flowers—family flowers only, please! Really, who needs another unwatered flower arrangement?
The Good Die Young, Others Just Grow Old
Jack leaves behind some fond memories, laughter, and a huge family who were gifted the man once known as “dad”, “granddad”, or even “the guy who always stole the last slice of cake”. If you wish to send a token of your sympathies, Askea Day Care Centre would happily accept donations. Because why not help the next generation escape from the fact that their grandparents are doomed to linger in memory?
So here’s to Jack Carter—remembered not just for his loving nature but for being at the very epicenter of a family that fits more people than a clown car. Raise a glass, share a story, and let the laughter of those who knew him—yes, the good jokes, please—echo in his memory!
In Conclusion
For those wishing to leave a personal message, check out the Rip.ie ‘Condolences’ section. Because sharing love at a time like this is what builds the circle of life into something that even Jack would appreciate. After all, there’s a reason we gather—let’s celebrate, reminisce and remember him fondly!
John Joseph (Jack) Carter, a beloved resident of 56 Ashgrove, Tullow Road, Carlow, and previously of 15 Kernanstown, Bennekerry, County Carlow, as well as Ballylinan, passed away peacefully on Thursday, 14 November, while receiving compassionate care from the dedicated nurses and staff at Saint Luke’s Hospital in Kilkenny.
Jack was the cherished husband of Elizabeth, affectionately known as Betty, and is remembered warmly by his family.
He leaves behind a legacy of love as a much-loved father to Mary, Ann, Liz, John, Denis, and the late Christopher, who will always hold a special place in their hearts.
Jack was adored as a grandfather by his many grandchildren: Clare, Marvin, Gavin, Rebecca, Kelly, Edward, Leeann, Michel, Chloe, Leon, Nicole, Samantha, and Josh, who knew him as a guiding force and a source of joy in their lives.
He is survived by his 14 great-grandchildren, sons-in-law, daughter-in-law, and his extended family including a devoted brother-in-law, sisters-in-law, numerous nephews, nieces, and his cherished neighbors and friends, all of whom will deeply miss his presence.
Reposing at Carpenter Bros. Funeral Home situated in Shamrock Square (Eircode R93 C863), the family will welcome guests on Saturday, 16 November, from 3pm to 7pm, concluding the visitation with heartfelt prayers at 7pm that evening.
The Funeral Mass will take place on Sunday, 17 November, at 12 noon in The Holy Family Church, Askea, followed by a burial service at Saint Anne’s Cemetery in Ballylinan.
House private, and the family requests no flowers, but anyone wishing to make a donation may do so to the Askea Day Care Centre, a cause that was dear to Jack’s heart.
Those wishing to express their condolences can do so in the dedicated section on the Rip.ie website.
What were some of Jack Carter’s most cherished family traditions that he instilled in his children and grandchildren?
**Interview with Elizabeth (Betty) Carter: Remembering Jack Carter**
**Editor:** Today, we have the honor of speaking with Elizabeth (Betty) Carter, the widow of John Joseph (Jack) Carter, who passed away on November 14. Betty, thank you for joining us during this difficult time.
**Betty:** Thank you for having me. It’s a time filled with mixed emotions, but I appreciate the opportunity to share a bit about Jack.
**Editor:** Jack was quite the family man with a remarkable legacy of six children and 14 great-grandchildren. How did he manage to bring so much love and joy into such a large family?
**Betty:** Jack had a natural charm and a big heart. He loved being surrounded by family and made it a priority to create memories with each of us. Whether it was birthday parties, holidays, or just a simple barbecue, he turned every occasion into a celebration. He often said that laughter was the glue of our family.
**Editor:** That’s beautiful to hear. You mentioned in the tribute that Jack had a way of holding his family together, almost like a “superhero.” Can you share any specific moments or stories that highlight his superhero qualities?
**Betty:** Oh, there are so many! But one that stands out is when he would help our kids with their school projects. He never turned down an opportunity to lend a hand. He’d stay up late with them, guiding them through, all while cracking jokes. Even if he was exhausted, he always seemed to have the energy for his family. It was those moments that showed how much he genuinely cared.
**Editor:** Alongside his immediate family, Jack seemed to have a close bond with his siblings as well. How did that relationship shape his life and, perhaps, your family dynamics?
**Betty:** Jack had a wonderful rapport with his siblings. They had a unique bond, often sharing stories and memories that would make everyone laugh. Family gatherings were filled with laughter, often turning into spirited debates—nothing serious, just healthy banter. Their connection reminded us of the value of family, making us appreciate our time together even more.
**Editor:** The final send-off at Holy Family Church is bound to be a memorable gathering of friends and loved ones. What do you hope people take away from this gathering as they pay their respects to Jack?
**Betty:** More than anything, I hope they leave with fond memories and laughter echoing in their hearts. Jack would have wanted us to celebrate his life rather than dwell on the sadness of his passing. I want everyone to share their stories, both the funny and meaningful, so we can keep his spirit alive together.
**Editor:** As we remember Jack, it’s evident he had a significant impact on many lives. If someone wishes to honor his memory, what would you encourage them to do?
**Betty:** Jack loved helping others, so donations to the Askea Day Care Centre would be a wonderful way to honor him. It aligns with his belief in nurturing the next generation. And, of course, sharing stories and laughter is what he valued most. Keeping his spirit alive through our memories is the best tribute we could give him.
**Editor:** Thank you, Betty, for sharing these heartfelt reflections on Jack’s vibrant life. His laughter and love will certainly continue to resonate within your family and the community.
**Betty:** Thank you for the opportunity to celebrate Jack. It’s a comfort to know his memory will live on in our hearts and in the stories we share.
