As in Western countries, it is now gradually becoming common for young boys and girls to live in the same house before marriage in Eastern societies. And modern-day open-minded liberals call it “love-in-relationship”. However, in small towns it is still considered wrong and hearing about this tradition creates controversy in the villages.
However, there is a tribe in India where live-in relationships are normal and parents allow their children to do so.
We are talking about the “Grasia” tribe living in Rajasthan and Gujarat.
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In this tribe men and women live together without marriage and women also become mothers before marriage.
In the Gracia tribe, women have the right to choose the boy of their choice, which is why the tribe is considered “progressive”.
A two-day fair is held here for marriages. Boys and girls gather in this fair and if they like someone, they run away from the fair with him.
Must tell girls these few things before marriage
After that they start living together without getting married. During this time, a child can also be born here. If they are married to each other, they return to their village and their parents get them married with great fanfare.
The practice of living in a live-in relationship is centuries old in this tribe.
It is believed that four brothers of this caste left the village and started living elsewhere. Three of them were married according to Indian customs, but one brother was living with the girl without marriage. These three brothers had no children but the fourth brother had one child. Since then, the tradition of living in a live-in started here.
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According to reports, the Garcia women can choose a second partner in the second festival despite the first partner if they wish. In this way they get freedom which is not found even in modern society.
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This is the reason why this tribe is famous all over the world and even urban women do not get that much freedom. There are many other tribes in India that have similar traditions.
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**Interview on Live-In Relationships in India: Understanding Progress and Tradition**
**Host:** Welcome to today’s segment where we explore the evolving perspectives on live-in relationships in India. With us is Dr. Anjali Mehra, a sociologist who specializes in cultural studies and Indian society. Thank you for joining us, Dr. Mehra.
**Dr. Mehra:** Thank you for having me!
**Host:** Let’s dive right in. We’ve seen a growing acceptance of live-in relationships in urban areas, but as the article points out, it still remains a taboo in many rural communities. What do you think contributes to this disparity?
**Dr. Mehra:** That’s a great question. The difference largely stems from traditional values that are deeply embedded in many rural areas. Marriage is often viewed as a sacrament and a social obligation, which creates resistance to the concept of living together before marriage. In contrast, urban areas, especially among the younger generation, are becoming more individualistic and open to diverse lifestyles.
**Host:** Interesting! The article mentions the Grasia tribe in Rajasthan and Gujarat, where live-in relationships are normalized. How does their social structure support this?
**Dr. Mehra:** Yes, the Grasia tribe is quite unique in this regard. Women in their society have the autonomy to choose their partners, and it’s socially acceptable for them to live with men before marriage and even have children. Their customs empower women and reflect a more egalitarian society compared to mainstream norms. This illustrates that progressive practices can exist within traditional frameworks.
**Host:** That’s fascinating. Can you shed some light on the significance of the fair mentioned in the article where young people can choose their partners?
**Dr. Mehra:** The fair serves as a communal event that not only facilitates potential pairings but also reinforces social ties within the community. It’s a celebration of choice and autonomy, allowing individuals to express their preferences without societal judgment. This contrasts sharply with the pressures faced in more conservative settings where arranged marriages prevail.
**Host:** Given the ongoing legal acceptance of live-in relationships in India, do you foresee an evolution in attitudes towards them, particularly in rural areas?
**Dr. Mehra:** Yes, I do. Change is often gradual, and while there will still be challenges, the increasing visibility of such relationships in media and urban settings will likely influence rural perspectives. As more individuals from these areas interact with urban culture, especially through migration and education, we could see a shift towards broader acceptance.
**Host:** Thank you, Dr. Mehra, for sharing your insights on this important topic. It’s clear that while there are barriers, there are also promising changes happening in different parts of India.
**Dr. Mehra:** Thank you! It’s been a pleasure discussing this with you.
**Host:** And thank you to our listeners for tuning in. Stay curious and keep exploring the fascinating cultural dynamics of our world!
