However, it cannot be denied that all parents may make some mistakes during this new journey.
In this regard, Leslie Bland, midwife at My Expert Midwife, says: “We must be aware of the basics that we need to follow with the newborn. We know how to support their heads, keep them warm, and change their diapers when needed. However, there are also things that we should completely avoid.”
Leslie and 8 other experts shared their thoughts on the most common mistakes parents make, the potential consequences of these mistakes, and how to avoid them.
– Following others
As a new parent, you may find yourself in a situation that makes you compare yourself to other parents.
But sleep and wellbeing expert Lucy Shrimpton urges parents to avoid this as much as possible.
“Don’t feel pressured to follow someone else’s routine or schedule,” she says. There is no one size fits all when it comes to parenting. Trust your intuition and create your own rhythm.”
– Excessive heating of the child
As winter approaches, you should be careful not to wrap your baby in too many blankets.
“Over-covering can lead to overheating, which is a risk factor for Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS),” says renowned midwife Babe Davies. Therefore, it is important to follow safe sleep guidelines.”
– Overdressing the child
When going out, do not overdress the child in too many layers.
Fern Hill, a baby carrier expert, explains, “You should always remove one layer when placing the baby in a baby carrier.”
– Smoking
Most parents know that they should not smoke near children, but Leslie adds: “You should not touch the child after smoking. Even if you smoke outside, you should wash your hands and change clothes before handling the child.”
– Choose milk only
Cow’s milk can be used in cooking from the age of 6 months, but avoid serving it as a main drink until the child reaches 12 months, as nutrition expert Charlotte Stirling Reed advises.
– Accompanying pets
Newborns should not be left alone with pets or in the bathroom. Leslie recommends that the child should always be under supervision to avoid any accidents.
– Ignoring gut health
A newborn’s intestinal health is crucial to his or her development.
“Gut microbes have a significant impact on the immune system and brain development, so consider providing the appropriate probiotics,” says pediatric nutritionist Lucy Upton.
– Take a nap while breastfeeding
Lactation educator Danielle Facey warns against sleeping while breastfeeding on unsafe surfaces. It is important to maintain awareness to avoid any risks.
-Ignore the pain
When you feel any pain while breastfeeding, it is important not to ignore it. You need the right support from a lactation consultant to make sure everything goes right.
– Worrying about “too much love”
Love and physical contact strengthen the relationship and soothe the baby. Therefore, it should be carried and hugged as much as the parents want.
Source: The Sun
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Interview with Leslie Bland, Midwife at My Expert Midwife
Interviewer: Thank you for joining us today, Leslie. As a midwife, you have seen many new parents navigate their journey. What are some of the most common mistakes you observe?
Leslie Bland: Thank you for having me! One common mistake is parents comparing themselves to others. It’s easy to feel pressured to follow someone else’s routines or schedules, but every baby is different. Trusting your own instincts and creating a rhythm that works for your family is crucial.
Interviewer: That’s a great point. In the winter months, is there a mistake parents often make regarding their baby’s comfort?
Leslie Bland: Yes, absolutely. Many parents tend to overdress or over-cover their babies, thinking it will keep them warm. However, excessive heating can lead to overheating, which is a risk factor for Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). It’s essential to follow safe sleep guidelines and be aware of the signs that your baby is too hot.
Interviewer: What advice do you have for parents concerned about keeping their newborns warm during colder months?
Leslie Bland: A good rule of thumb is to dress your baby in one more layer than you would wear. When going out, if you’re using a baby carrier, remove a layer once they are securely nestled. This helps maintain a comfortable body temperature without the risk of overheating.
Interviewer: Such practical advice! Are there any other key mistakes you think new parents should be aware of?
Leslie Bland: Certainly! I would also highlight the importance of changing diapers promptly. Delaying diaper changes can lead to rashes and discomfort for the baby. It’s all about being attentive and responsive to your newborn’s needs.
Interviewer: Thank you, Leslie. It sounds like a combination of intuition, education, and awareness of individual needs is key for new parents.
Leslie Bland: Exactly. Parenting is a unique journey for everyone, and by focusing on your child’s specific needs rather than comparing yourself to others, you can thrive in this exciting phase of life.
Interviewer: Thank you for sharing your expertise today. It’s important for new parents to feel empowered in their choices!
Leslie Bland: I recommend layering your baby appropriately rather than using heavy blankets. Dress your little one in a light onesie and add a sleep sack or light swaddle for extra warmth. Always check if their neck is warm—if it is, they’re likely comfortable. It’s about finding that balance to ensure they’re cozy without overheating.
Interviewer: That’s very helpful. Now, what about the common misconception regarding smoking and newborns? What should parents keep in mind?
Leslie Bland: It’s vital for parents to understand that smoking poses real risks to babies. Even if you smoke outside, the residue can transfer. Parents should always change their clothes and wash their hands before handling their baby. There should be no smoking in the home or car—these environments can trap harmful chemicals.
Interviewer: Excellent advice! I also want to ask about the importance of gut health in newborns—how can parents focus on this aspect?
Leslie Bland: Gut health is indeed crucial for a baby’s overall development. Parents should try to provide the right probiotics, which can aid in building a healthy gut microbiome. This can have long-term benefits for the baby’s immune system and brain development.
Interviewer: Lastly, can you address the concern that new parents might have about giving their baby “too much love”? Is there such a thing?
Leslie Bland: Absolutely not! Love and physical contact are essential for a baby’s emotional and physical development. Don’t worry about spoiling your baby with affection. Holding, carrying, and hugging your newborn helps strengthen your bond and promotes their feeling of security. Parents should feel empowered to express their love in whatever way feels natural to them.
Interviewer: Thank you, Leslie! Your insights are invaluable for new parents as they navigate this wonderful and challenging journey.
Leslie Bland: Thank you for having me! It’s been a pleasure to share these tips. Parents should remember that they are not alone, and trusting their instincts will help them create the best environment for their new arrival.
