2024-01-19 00:41:13
I have been with my partner for 20 years. We had our two children in quick succession following eight years of marriage because it was difficult for her to get pregnant and she didn’t want to interfere too much with the pursuit of her career. But as soon as she returned to work following her second maternity leave, it was as if all sexual desire within her had died down. And since our last five years together, we have barely had a relationship.
Not that I’m obsessed with sex, but I still need it more than once every three months. As I felt very good when I insisted a little too much that she didn’t like it, little by little I put a lid on my desire to fuck, until I got to know a woman quite exactly like me on a dating site.
We didn’t fuck the first time we saw each other, but the second time was a good one. Since then, we have seen each other at least once a week at his apartment. In the year that this has lasted, I realize that she responds to everything I want in a companion, and it seems that it is the same for her.
As I had sworn to her that as soon as I was certain of my success with her I would separate from my wife, she urged me to do so. Except that I don’t know how to tell the mother of my children that it’s over between us, I’m so afraid that she will deprive me of seeing them. What do we do in a case like mine so as not to lose a new love by stretching out the deadlines?
Léry
As you seem certain of your love for this new partner, the one and only way to do things right is to tell your wife, with tact and sensitivity, that you have someone else in your life. Letting things drag on will do nothing to add to the fact that ultimately, your decision to leave her is made up. The operation will not be without stirring up a lot of emotions, but the more you do things logically and gently, the less your relationships with your children will deteriorate. Courage and good luck!
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