2023-11-21 19:33:08
There would be no happiness, but misfortune would help – this is definitely regarding me. So I would have suffered, perhaps even all my life, if my husband’s ex had not appeared in the way of our family vessel.
I didn’t take anyone’s husband away. When we met him, he was already single, and his fiancee, with whom he was planning a wedding, still got married, but to someone else.
I immediately liked my husband; there was something attractive regarding him. But he didn’t pay much attention to me; he still missed his ex-fiancee then.
I had to make a lot of effort to somehow attract his attention. Usually I wasn’t so persistent, but this time it broke through.
It’s funny to remember now, but then I didn’t go from any direction to lure my husband. And she cooked for him, and dressed up, and changed her style to please him. She was all over the place, but she achieved her goal.
We began an affair, which ended with a natural marriage proposal, thank God that at least I didn’t have to do it myself.
We signed, made repairs in my apartment and began to live and live. I was in seventh heaven, it was as if my eyes were clouded with a pink fog, everything seemed beautiful.
For two years I flew in this pink fog, it seemed to me that everything turned out great in my life. Now we’ll live a little for ourselves, and then we’ll have a baby.
The brain refused to register that life was actually not that wonderful. My husband was jealous of me and threw tantrums if I was a little late from work.
But for some reason it just touched me. This is how a person loves me and is afraid of losing me. Then it seemed completely normal to me, as if the head was not mine.
My husband and I didn’t go anywhere because he didn’t want to. It’s better to sit at home on weekends, drink beer and watch TV. Well, you can also go to his mother.
And that suited me too. Yes, at least somehow, as long as it’s next to him, as long as it’s closer to him. It doesn’t matter that we lost all our friends so much.
He didn’t do anything around the house, but that suited me, I wanted to take care of him and create comfort. So she ran to make him tea at the first whistle, found out what exactly he wanted to eat, made sure that he always had everything fresh, clean, and ironed.
There is little money in the family, but does he find it for his needs? Again, no big deal. I can go without a manicure, not to mention a cosmetologist. The main thing is that such a husband loves me too.
I didn’t even notice when he started cheating on me. When he was late, supposedly for work, the thought didn’t even cross my mind that he was not at work.
On days like these, I just thought that if I had more time, then I might cook something more complex to please my husband.
And then my world collapsed. My husband came home from work one day and began silently packing his bags. I thought that he was sent on a business trip, but it turned out that he was leaving me.
He stated that you can’t order your heart, he met his love, that’s why he’s leaving. When asked what I should do, my husband simply shrugged and advised me to make an appointment with a stylist.
Our divorce tore me into pieces. It seemed to me that I would no longer live, only exist, my life was over and so on.
But everything turned out to be not as sad as I tried to convince myself. It turned out that if you don’t run in circles around a guy who doesn’t value you, then life is quite an interesting thing.
I have my own hobbies once more, no one can stand my mind, I stopped nervously looking at the clock, fearing being late from work and running into a scandal. I even resumed communication with several friends.
Of course, I didn’t come to this right away; the fog in my head didn’t disappear as quickly as I would have liked, but following two months I was already fine.
And following three I realized that I was grateful to my husband’s ex for taking such a unique person away from me. I completely lost my head and didn’t live my life at all.
Now I’m catching up. My ex-husband sometimes shows up in my life, drops hints that we might start all over once more.
I’ve already started all over once more. And my ex-husband is not there. Let him look for another fool, but I managed to wise up.
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