The Journey of Fiorella Retiz: Rebuilding Life, Healing Wounds, and Finding Love

2023-09-03 13:14:07

Fiorella Retiz grabbed the headlines of the newspapers more than a year ago for the ‘ampay’ with Aldo Miyashiro. Today, following undergoing therapy, healing wounds and acknowledging part of her guilt, she is rebuilding her life next to her son and her family. She accepts that if these images did not appear something worse would have happened because she knew “the angel and the devil”, and she is convinced that she did not destroy the marriage of “Chino” with Érika Villalobos, because “it was already destroyed”.

Fiorella, following everything you’ve experienced, what motivated you to enter ‘La casa de Magaly’?

It was one of the most difficult decisions I made, it was a subject that I discussed with my mother and my psychologist, because I knew that they were going to be on me because of what happened.

More than a year has passed, have the wounds closed?

No. I think that pain is very difficult to heal, it is not easy and when you know that you also have responsibility, because I have it in part, because it was something that happened and not in the right way, to this day I have crisis of anxiety.

The day following the images that Magaly spread, I guess you didn’t leave your house…

I didn’t leave my house for a month, I stayed locked up because I also had journalists at the door. Then I went on a trip for a month with my whole family to Colombia. That trip helped me get out, a little bit, of the hole I had gotten myself into.

Fiorella Retiz says that she became the punching bag of people on social networks and they judged her without knowing what was behind her ‘ampay’. (Photo: GEC/ Joel Alonzo)

Aldo gives his ‘speech’ acknowledging his guilt, that he hopes to recover his family and also exonerates you…

I would love to tell you all the context behind the situation that everyone saw, but I cannot anticipate what will happen in ‘La casa de Magaly’.

Did they delude you?, did they cheat? because a few days ago you commented that Aldo was a bad person and you would never be his friend…

Sometimes you have the illusion of meeting a person and…

You’ve known Aldo since you were 18 years old.

Yes, and you imagine that you know a person, but it is not like that because only in the most extreme or critical moments do you just meet the human being, because nobody knows what I experienced. There were times when they were very cruel to me.

The comments on social media were harsh…

Yes, there I went the punching bag.

Was it unfair that you and Fiorella Méndez were left without a job?

Yes, because one thing has nothing to do with the other, since the labor issue is very different from any personal dispute. At that time I had seven jobs, because I worked from Monday to Sunday, and everyone told me ‘bye’, they took everything from me and it was because I am a woman. I don’t have the trajectory that Aldo has, so I don’t collide with the person who has everything, but I do grab the one who has nothing.

The tiktoks with Fiorella Méndez were criticized a lot, were they indirect?

I have known Fiorella since we were 14 years old when we started studying theater and that is why there was that kind of confidence to bother us and record the tiktoks, but they were taken out of context.

In the images when you see Aldo and you walking by his side, what did you think?

I really wasn’t thinking regarding anything, I was very tired, I had worked a double shift, what’s more, I didn’t want to go to that work meeting. What I wanted was to get to my bed, we had drunk a lot and I wanted to rest.

The drink is a catalyst for the things that one has saved to emerge.

Yeah, sometimes you do wrong things when you’re drunk because you loosen up.

If that ‘ampay’ didn’t come out, what would have happened?

I don’t know, I have no idea, I mightn’t tell you.

Have you already idealized Aldo?

Not so much, it’s not that he had idealized someone, he did have a concept, that is, like you know the angel and the devil of a person. I think that if this had not happened, at some point something worse would happen.

Does it seem cruel to you that they say you destroyed a home, a marriage?

Look, I don’t think I have destroyed something that was already destroyed, that’s why I tell you that it’s easy to be a judge on social networks, but I don’t feel identified with that because I know the truth.

‘NOW ERIKA IS HAPPY’

When you saw the images of Érika with her new lover, you said: Great, that he is happy!…

It is that he would not have to attack her because she is a person who is not to blame for anything. All people deserve to be happy, if I suffered on my side, of course, it is another type of context and another type of story, I imagine the suffering she had, how hard it was for her when she just passed. Everyone deserves to be happy and she is happy now, I even feel less guilty, it takes a weight off my shoulders to see her like this and I am moved (her eyes fill with tears) because if I have the illusion of having a real, beautiful and Now she can get it, I think it’s nice. Love is beautiful even though it has been through ugly situations. I don’t have to stop believing in love and I will continue believing and betting on love, healthy love, true love, love without lies, love without dirty tricks.

I guess following everything that happened you had to talk to your child…

You know, that conversation hasn’t happened yet, but he’s not stupid, he’s intelligent, sometimes he tells me: Fiorella Retiz, oh! I can’t say your name out loud because they record you… She’s innocent, but I will have to tell her because I don’t have to have secrets with my son, I haven’t had them regarding his father, because I’m a single mother, imagine with this topic.

Now you’re taking flight once more…

Yes, one learns. My life has never been easy and these things help you grow (cries). Sometimes, one has to go through many circumstances, but a particular one arrives that completely sinks you and at that moment when you sink is that you realize that there are things that you have to work on.

Is your son’s father completely absent?

Yes, I take care of my son since before he was born. When I told him that she was 3 months pregnant, he disappeared, I didn’t want him and that person was 43 years old and I was 21 years old.

Is the family theme very important to you?

Yes, I dream of getting married in white, having my family, my house, my children, my husband, cooking for him although I don’t know, I hope he’s a chef (smiles), otherwise we’re going to starve.

And the DJ who gave you neck massages, a kiss on the head?

The DJ is my friend, but he is something (massages) super cute. I’m not in love or dating anyone. Right now I am in the process of learning to have a healthy, beautiful relationship that does not have toxicity, I am healing.

Alfredo Benavides said that you are beautiful, he even asked you to marry him…

Alfredito is affectionate, he is my friend, but he also said that he liked ‘Robotina’. He recently met my son and my son is delighted with him, he loves him because he behaves like a child.

Fiorella Retiz, despite what she has experienced, believes in love and dreams of marrying in white, having her family and children. (Photo: GEC/Joel Alonzo)

Mónica Cabrejos has said that she has Peter Pan syndrome.

He is a very good person.

He commented that from friendship to love there is only one step.

It’s true, but friendship is one thing and knowing your friend as a couple is another, so you have to take the right time.

Gabriela (Serpa) complained that she didn’t care…

What I’m going for is that I’m looking for a person to share anything simple, I’m very conceited, but not in a bad way, but I like to be pampered. I don’t like the man who tells you ‘how hot you are’, I like being caught by my human side.

Is there a fight with Gabriela?

No, nothing, really, they’ll find out.

They worked together on Aldo’s show…

No, I have said that I have only seen her a couple of times.

Strong comment when saying ‘she’s my little sister…’

It was at a time when I felt attacked at home, because the women, the men, and Fiorella Retiz were there.

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