2023-06-30 06:14:41
The #MeToo turmoil in Taiwan is intensifying, with new victims and perpetrators appearing every day. Even us in Hong Kong are paying attention to what’s going on in the showbiz on the other side. Hearing such a horrific sexual assault incident, I feel angry and sad for the victim, but at the same time, I feel very helpless for the girl who is the other half of the perpetrator.
It is indeed not easy to walk into marriage with a person you love so much, but if following a few years, you find that the person next to your pillow is not as perfect as you imagined, and even has committed acts of assaulting women, as the other half, you should How to deal with yourself? You must know that sexual harassment or sexual assault in a marriage relationship is not only an act of infringement on the victim, but also an act of breaking the law. It is also a betrayal of the partner and damage to the loyal relationship between the two.
Seeing You Sheng, Huang Zijiao, NONO, black Chen Jianzhou and other Taiwanese celebrities involved in the #Metoo incident under their marriage relationship, and the other half have to come out to “blindly support” their husbands, it really makes people feel angry and heartbroken, and it reminds people A word from Zhang Jiahui many years ago.
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30 years in love with Guan Yonghe
Zhang Jiahui admitted that he had thought regarding stealing food
There are many well-known loving couples in the Hong Kong entertainment industry, such as Tony Leung and Carina Lau, Chow Yun-fat and Chen Huilian, Liu Qingyun and Guo Aiming, etc. Among them, Zhang Jiahui and Guan Yonghe are not the type that often come out to show off, but they are well-known model couples .
Many years ago, Zhang Jiahui was asked in an interview by Zheng Danrui, “Have you ever thought regarding stealing food?”
Zhang JiahuiWithout thinking, he replied:
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“Of course, why not? I want to act all the time, not just thinking regarding it, but I have to be brave enough to do it!”, “First of all, don’t say that you are afraid of losing your wife and destroying your family. My career, my whole being, everything I worked so hard to build, just to have an affair? Then the family and everything I worked so hard to build will all have to be replaced because of a one-off, I don’t think that counts It’s a good deal, why should I fight like this?”
>>> Zheng Danrui asked Zhang Jiahui from 29:48
This sentence was said by Zhang Jiahui, who had worked hard in the entertainment industry for 21 years at that time.
Rolling around in the showbiz for many years, meeting different people every day, immersed in the colorful life every day, for a man, it can definitely be a test. Being able to maintain a clean body and self-love is not only out of respect and loyalty to the other half, but also because of enough love and attention to one’s own life and career, so that one understands that there is no need to take risks, lest you lose everything you have built so hard, You have to bear the pain of loss, so you know how to stay away from temptation.
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Guan Yonghe is the head of the female role
Zhang Jiahui also knew that he was climbing Guan Yonghe
The reason why Zhang Jiahui was able to calmly say such good words may be because everything he has now is not easy to come by.
Like many couples in the circle, Zhang Jiahui and Guan Yonghe fell in love while filming the TV series “Dragon in the Rivers and Lakes”. But the difference is that Guan Yonghe was already the head of ATV, and also a goddess-level existence. The fame he possessed was far from that of Zhang Jiahui, who was still playing a supporting role; The so-called “women are superior to men” are not favored by the public.
In fact, Zhang Jiahui also knew that he was a high-ranking Guan Yonghe. He asked each other when they first confirmed their relationship, “You are so beautiful and popular. I have no money and I don’t see any future. Why do you accept it?” I?”
At that time, Guan Yonghe said: “You can’t do it now, but who can guarantee that you can’t do it in the future?” Zhang Jiahui was very moved, and from then on he decided that this woman was the one he wanted to protect.
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When Zhang Jiahui encountered a low tide
Guan Yonghe always supports each other unconditionally
To maintain a relationship, many things need to be done; but to destroy a relationship, one indulgence is enough.
In the entertainment industry, it is absolutely difficult to maintain one’s original intention and not be shaken by everything outside. Just look at some people who choose to be romantic, some people choose to cheat, and even choose to use coercive methods to satisfy their selfish desires.
Under such an atmosphere, Zhang Jiahui, who knows how to keep a distance from temptation, is especially a clear spring in the entertainment industry.
When filming “The Silent Witness”, the heroine Yang Zi took the initiative to ask him for his contact information and wanted his private phone number. In fact, this is also a common practice in the film industry, and it does not necessarily mean that the woman wants to cross the line. But Zhang Jiahui knew how to protect himself, and said to her, “If you want to contact me, you can come to Hong Kong, first contact Andy Lau, then contact Jacky Cheung, and then you can contact me.” It means that he declined the woman’s request and took the initiative to talk to the woman Keep a long distance.
For Zhang Jiahui, even though his relationship with Guan Yonghe was not 100% happy, and the two had disagreements from time to time, he was always willing to be the one who bowed his head and begged for peace. Because he knows that sometimes apologizing is not because he really did something wrong, but to understand the importance of the other party.
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When he lost himself, when he was troubled at work, in relationships, or even at home, Guan Yonghe was always the one who might explain, accompany and take care of him. It is easy to say it is easy to know and accompany each other, but it is the test of life to really do it.
Although Guan Yonghe first mentioned marriage
But Zhang Jiahui chose to love her forever
During the interview, Zhang Jiahui also mentioned that Guan Yonghe mentioned “marriage” first, and said that if he didn’t get married, he would choose to break up. This made Zhang Jiahui think regarding the next step of the relationship between the two.
For many people, following married couples, love will become a feeling. Zhang Jiahui said, “I don’t know how to distinguish love or emotion. I only know that I love my wife very much.” After marriage, the two get along with each other almost the same way, but what changed was Zhang Jiahui’s determination, because he understood the situation in front of him. Individuals are the ones who will accompany him until his death, and they must support each other without reservation.
In 2009, Zhang Jiahui won the Best Actor Award at the Hong Kong Film Awards for the first time for “The Witness”. “I would also like to thank my wife. She takes good care of my children and allows me to work with peace of mind.”
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Guan Yonghe in the audience was equally moved, because only she knew what Cheung Ka Fai went through during his journey from a walk-on actor without a character name to an actor who was able to win the Hong Kong Film Awards. The gap between Zhang Jiahui and Guan Yonghe was narrowed by his own efforts, and he also used his own strength to prove his love.
Zhang Jiahui, who has zero scandals following dating Guan Yonghe, is a manifestation of deep love
To learn to love,learn to love yourself first
Some people are always more cautious when walking on a smooth road because they have walked a rough road, and they know how to be grateful and cherish.
Perhaps many people think that Zhang Jiahui, who has had zero scandals following dating Guan Yonghe, is a manifestation of his deep love for his wife; indeed, this statement is not wrong, but what is even more important is that he also loves himself.
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A person can not love anyone, but he must not be unclean and self-love, otherwise it is easy to let himself let go, and even degenerate to an ugly level.
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