2023-05-11 07:16:36
When they know their husband is having an affair, some people will make a fuss to fight jealousy, some people will close their eyes to keep the marriage, or some people will quietly divorce. Some people even apply the trick “he eats cha, she eats spring rolls”, having an affair with another man to take revenge on her husband.
Mr. Tieu Nham and Ms. Tieu Ton (living in China) have been married for 6 years and have 2 children together. The quiet life passed quite happily, but more than a year ago, the husband “derailed” to betray his wife and children when there was another woman outside.
The couple’s 6-year marriage came to an end because both husband and wife had an affair.
Betrayed by her husband, instead of making a fuss or getting a divorce, Tieu Ton chose to have an affair with someone else to take revenge on her husband. Worth mentioning, this man is 3 years younger than her and has a family. After more than a year of dating, the two want to divorce their current husband/wife to get together in the main way.
“I really love him and so does he. Although younger than me, he spoiled me very much, I bought whatever he wanted. He said he would divorce his wife to marry me, so now sign the divorce papers as well.”said the wife firmly.
These words made Tieu Nham unable to help but be shocked, embarrassed and in pain. He mightn’t believe that in his wife’s heart, he had no place to stand even though he had repented and broken up with his mistress since the day his wife found out.
Tieu Nham did not expect his wife to take revenge on him by having an affair with someone else.
Saying all the things that his wife did not change, Tieu Nham ignored his self-esteem, knelt down while crying and begged his wife not to divorce. However, despite the husband’s plea or the mediator’s dissuade, the wife remained unmoved. Facing her husband who was kneeling on the ground crying, she calmly sat on the bed and sneered, saying:Women are much more cruel than men. I want a divorce.”
Seeing that it was impossible to recover, the mediator had to encourage Tieu Nham to let go, not to spend a lot of effort on his wife, but instead to raise her spirits to take good care of her two children.
The story caused a stir on Chinese social networks with many mixed opinions, some people blamed the wife for being excessive, while others blamed the husband who sowed what he reaped. “Then he understood what it felt like to be betrayed. The most pitiful are the two children”, “Once a woman’s heart has changed, the strength of ten oxen can’t even pull it back. That woman’s way of revenge is so childish.” Here are some comments from netizens.
No matter how much the husband apologized, the wife still decided to divorce.
In fact, whatever the reason, adultery is wrong and unacceptable in marriage. “Eating spring rolls” to take revenge on her husband is a foolish act of women. The fact that you have an affair to get revenge on your husband can be used as evidence once morest you, turning you right into wrong. Or, your husband may force you to forgive him because you’re now “even”.
Having an affair to get revenge on your husband may relieve your pain in the short term and ease your mood temporarily, but it will add to your pain in the long run, resulting in more bitterness. .
In addition, taking revenge by “he eats cha, grandma eats spring rolls” will reduce the chances of marriage healing. If you feel that this marriage can still be saved, absolutely do not think of “eating spring rolls” for revenge. To create an opportunity for reconciliation, you need to address the root of the problem.
And if you can’t reconcile or want to let go, it’s better to definitely get a divorce. Revenge by “eating spring rolls”, you will only make things more confusing, even hurting your children.
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