I’m sure you won’t believe it, I’ve been married for 8 years, have two children, but for the past 8 years, I have been able to go back to my hometown to celebrate Tet. My family has 2 brothers, both living with their own families in the city. My brother will return to his parents once every year. My husband’s family has two sons, his brother-in-law lives in the countryside, every year celebrates Tet with his parents.
That’s why my husband said that every year he would let his wife celebrate Tet at his grandmother’s house, so that I might be happier and more relaxed during the most Tet holidays. Actually, we can go back to grandma’s house every year like my brother. The years he didn’t come back, it was okay for us to go back to our parents.
But if the husband has pampered his wife and psychology so much, I will not refuse. I’m not even happy yet.
If the husband has pampered his wife and psychologically so much, I will not refuse. (Illustration)
Normally, we are busy with work and our children are studying, so we do not often go back to our hometown. My husband’s family never complained regarding the children celebrating Tet at my grandmother’s house, so I always secretly felt lucky.
This year is the 9th year of marriage, I thought the whole family would continue to go back to my grandmother to celebrate Tet because my brother did not return this year. Suddenly her husband said he would come back this year. I always agree because he has already conceded to his wife a lot.
On the 27th of Tet, we returned to our husband’s hometown because we had arranged work in the city and bought Tet clothes to bring home. Immediately my husband’s parents had a family meeting. I was shocked to understand why this year my husband wants to go home to celebrate Tet.
A terrible secret that he and his whole husband’s family hid from me for the past 8 years reluctantly had to expose.
My husband’s family was difficult at first, at first he gave up his intention of going to university and soon got married. After getting married, he and his wife discussed it and he wanted to retake the exam. Because he wanted to go to school, he and his wife did not register their marriage, hiding the fact that they were married, for fear that their friends would laugh at them. He went to the city to study and then retake the university exam, his wife stayed at home to work and send money to her husband. That’s why he was so old compared to his classmates.
When he graduated from school a few years ago, he met me and fell in love with me. I did not suspect anything, not knowing that he abandoned his wife and 2 children in the countryside to love him. And she resignedly accepted following receiving the promise that he would provide for both parents and children.
They are from the same hometown, only in different districts, so my husband didn’t want to take me back to my hometown, afraid that I would discover that secret. Our wedding was also compact before, he said he didn’t like to show off, which turned out to be a fallacy.
I thought I was lucky to have a good husband, who knew it was unlucky. (Illustration)
But now his former wife has a serious illness, it is unknown how long she will live. She wants to hand over the children to you. My husband’s parents were weak and might not take care of two children. He thinks that our marriage has been 8 years, we have two children, now that the secret is revealed, he is not afraid of me asking for a divorce.
After clarifying everything, my husband’s parents wanted to celebrate Tet and my husband and I would take my husband’s two children to the city to take care of them. My husband promised not to let my mother and daughter suffer. In fact, over the years, he sent money to my hometown, I didn’t know, my husband’s income was higher than what was disclosed to his wife.
I was in pain to the point of collapse, thinking that my husband was psychologically caring for his wife to celebrate Tet in his foreign country for 8 years in a row. I thought I was lucky to have a good husband, who knew it was unlucky. What do I do to be in the mood to celebrate Tet? Now what should I do? Forgiving her husband is so painful, but divorce is really unbearable…