My husband and I have been married for 5 years, we have 2 children, family life in general is fine. Because I am a person who does not like quarrels and stress, every time my husband and I disagree, I hold back. Many people criticize me for being afraid of my wife, letting my wife bully me, but I don’t think that’s right. I simply gave up on my wife and thought for her.
Before, we only knew for 3 months and then got married. Not to get married, but because it suits them, both of them are old enough to get married. After getting married, my wife got pregnant 7 months later, following giving birth, she gave birth to a second child, so it was a bit difficult. My wife and I do not live with our grandparents, because the wife does not want to collide, I think that is also true. We bought a house on installments to live separately, when the wife went to work, she took the children to her grandparents’ house and then picked them up at night. Therefore, from that day until now, mother and wife have not had any quarrel with each other.
Even though my wife has a husband and children, she is still very stylish, likes to dress up and is just afraid of being ugly. She is on a diet, exercising, taking care of her skin… so she looks as beautiful as an unborn girl. Having a beautiful wife I am also proud but a bit worried because many people pay attention to her. Therefore, wherever I go, I always accompany my wife, my husband and I take pictures together and post them on Facebook to “affirm our sovereignty”.
At this end of the year, companies end the year all the time. My company and my wife are no exception. Just last week at my company’s year-end party, I took my wife to have fun. Indeed, my wife is beautiful, good at communicating, so I am very happy. The sisters kept wishing to be like my wife, and the men said that I have a beautiful wife, such an emotional couple can’t get in. I just laughed, but throughout the party, I didn’t forget to take care of my wife little by little.
This weekend’s company’s year-end anniversary, I also went out with. Today, several companies hold their year-end party here, so it’s quite crowded. The wife’s company is held on the 2nd floor, which is also monumental and large. However, when my wife went to the toilet, I thought it took a while to see how my wife was talking to a polite, well-mannered man in his 40s there. She was shy, her eyes a little bit infatuated with the other guy. I didn’t rush over, but hid behind a nearby wall to listen to them talk. It turned out that the other guy was his wife’s ex-lover. His wife calls him Phong. He is still single and apologizes to his wife for leaving my wife in the past, causing her pain.
His wife confided, for many years, he has been quietly going to Facebook to see, today accidentally met once more here. Because she mightn’t forget her old love, she named my first son Phong. He laughed and advised my wife to live in the present, forget regarding him because now that his wife is single, it is not his choice. The wife was very sad following those honest words. He left, his wife’s eyes still full of regret.
I didn’t see anything serious, so I put it back in as if nothing was wrong. However, when I got home, my wife was like a lost soul, and I might only sigh to understand why that year my wife insisted on naming my child Phong, even though my family already had a cousin named Phong. She is with me but still remembers the old people, the name Phong that my wife can’t forget. What do I have to do?