Via Fall Share stories that can be learned from. Never spoil the people closest to you with ease and money.
The sworddut tells how his role as the first child in the family. Via Vallen said that he was a typical first child who was ignorant and chose to be silent when he was annoyed, but might get angry at everyone when he might no longer hold back his feelings.
Chevra Yolandi’s wife told how she behaved towards her younger siblings. When the money continues to side with him, Via Fall giving monthly rations and providing various facilities which of course without realizing it spoils his younger siblings.
“Every month on the 1st they get an allowance from me
Even gifts from me (cars, motorbikes, etc.) every cost that comes out, for example, services until I pay taxes, I also pay
What’s even more funny, for example, on the 1st I haven’t given you any money yet
On asking the other brother, has he been given a ration yet
So it’s like payday,” wrote Via Vallen in his upload seen, Saturday (17/12/2022).
It turned out that the habit of giving monthly rations made their younger siblings complacent and some chose not to work. This made Via Vallen realize what he was doing was wrong.
“Only then did I realize I was wrong. Finally I stopped the monthly allotment and their personal expenses including service and vehicle tax with the aim of getting them to think and want to work,” he said.
“Want to know what the results are? I’m once morest it. Even the gifts from me (cars etc.) are being sold without further ado. What’s worse is that they even blame me for not having money and say that what is called a gift is the right to be given what to do with it. Yes, but yes, don’t be quiet, what else do you fight once morest those who give them too,” tutur Via Vallen.
However, his younger siblings started working, although there were those who persisted and some who didn’t want to be bothered. There are those who have been funded many times, but nothing has happened.
Now his younger siblings are still trying. Via Fall asking for prayer and wishing his younger siblings success.
“Now they are still in business. Pray for my younger siblings to be more successful, friends,” he hoped.
“So the conclusion for the FIRST CHILD here is
YOU MUST BE STRONG! Don’t spoil your younger siblings too much, teach them responsibility so they don’t get used to depending on you Because if you (the first child) are gone They are not fragile, so they rise easily,” ordered Via Vallen.
Via Vallen shared his story, this was not meant to reveal the disgrace of his younger siblings. This happened long before he got married.
Via Vallen emphasized that currently the relationship with his younger siblings is very good.
“Now my younger siblings are adults. On good terms, not lazy. Likes to help parents and older siblings too,” said firmly Via Fall.
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