Dr. Heba Qutb revealed the phobia of the wedding night, or the first meeting between married couples, that the most difficult thing for a person is to be a slave to something.
This came in response to a caller who said in her question: My joy is near and I am afraid of the wedding night. What should I do?
Dr. Heba Kotb explained, during the “Bowdah” program, which is broadcast on the “Al-Hayat” channel, that when a person feels that he is under a microscope, and that the performance of an observer, this puts him under severe pressure, and thus he has fear and phobia of the wedding night.
because he is required to succeed on this day, and this is for the male, while the female has a phobia of fear because she must be a virgin, so she feels phobia because of this feeling.
She emphasized that there is no objection to the wife treating her husband, as if she is a prostitute during the intimate relationship between them, but this should be gradually and paving the way for the wife, taking into account that she is still a virgin and young.
She said that young people who are regarding to get married should completely stay away from the stories they hear regarding the breaking up of the hymen, especially since the breaking up of the hymen is not a surgical operation, but rather a purely physiological process, pointing out that the most important thing that the husband should follow on the wedding night is to deal with “breaking the hymen.” virginity” quietly.