Remarried couple Yoon Nam-gi and Lee Da-eun met Dr. Oh Eun-young.
On the followingnoon of the 10th, Channel A’s entertainment program ‘Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center’ appeared as a couple, Yoon Nam-gi and Lee Da-eun, who met for the first time through ‘Dol Singles 2’ and started a new family. They frankly confessed that they did not want to fail in their second marriage, drawing attention.
On this day, Nam-gi Yoon and Da-eun Lee appeared in a savory appearance. Those who received perfect scores in the bean pod test drew attention when asked what kind of trouble they came out with. Da-eun Lee opened her mouth. She said, “Since we’re remarried, shouldn’t we fail? There is a fear of such failure. “I wonder how I can keep this remarriage as happy as it is now,” she said. Dr. Oh Eun-young nodded her head and advised, “When you divorce, there must be a reason. You must understand the cause of the failure.”
Lee Da-eun’s daughter Ri-eun was talked regarding. Currently 31 months old, she has shown a special affection for Lee Eun-yi, who is 4 years old this year. Still, she confessed, “I’m worried regarding what to do if Ri Eun-yi is away from me,” and confessed that she cares more regarding her daughter’s actions as she is her stepdad.
Dr. Oh Eun-young asked, “There are quite a few people who think that children are an obstacle to remarriage, but what regarding Nam Gi?” Yoon Nam-gi said, “At first, when Ri Eun-yi appeared, she was nervous. But unlike her worries, she approached me in a friendly way first,” he recalled. Lee Da-eun said, “It’s still strange, her first meeting was like a movie.” She said, “She was worried regarding Lee Eun-yi because she was very shy, but it went well with her brother.”
Yoon Nam-gi was moved to tears when asked regarding his feelings at the time. Da-eun Lee, who was watching her, also quietly wiped away her tears. Yoon Nam-gi, who brought her eyes to tears, said, “I can’t help but say that I was impressed. “I really thought I was going to be a father,” she said. The two of them were crying in a storm, and Dr. Eun-Young Oh said that the relationship with Eun-Ri must have been impressive, and she said, “For Nam-Gi, Eun-Yi Lee seems to be her tear button.” She added, “No matter how we met, these two are Lee Eun-i’s mother and father. As a mother and her father, she just needs to love her enough.”
Channel A’s ‘Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center’ capture © News 1Dr. Oh Eun-young advised Lee Eun-yi that she should be honest and tell all the facts. When asked, “When is the best time to tell (remarriage, stepfather existence)?” he said, “The best way to minimize confusion is to be honest. “She thinks it’s right for her to tell her if she can understand what she’s saying.”
Jung Hyung-don said he did not understand, and asked, “I am still young, so at some point the father in my memory will become Mr. Namgi, but why do I have to tell him sooner?” Dr. Oh Eun-young said, “Before the age of 7, I can get along very well with my step-dad and step-mom. However, following the age of 7, cognitive abilities develop. As my thoughts grow, my mother and father live in different places, can I be this happy? If I am close with my stepmother and stepdad, wouldn’t I be betraying my biological parents? Conflicts arise where we have to keep our loyalty,” he explained.
In addition, Dr. Oh Eun-young said, “Children go through such a process. If we talk firmly and honestly from the beginning, we can overcome such a hurdle much better.” She said, “I have to say clearly that it is a relationship that I met through a precious relationship. It is a lie to say that he is my real father, so the most important thing is honesty.”
Dr. Oh Eun-young advised, “We need to understand why the first marriage failed,” as they confessed their worries regarding “the second marriage, I do not want to fail.” Unlike her previous marriage, Lee Da-eun trusts Yoon Nam-gi, so she’s no longer obsessed with it, she said. The thing she hates the most regarding Yoon Nam-gi is lies, but she said that Da-eun Lee has absolutely nothing to do with it.
In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young said, “It takes courage to confidently say how precious the family you are. The child will find out later. In all relationships, honesty is the most trustworthy. You have to go step by step like that.” “When there is a problem, come together as a team and break through it head-on. I hope that we will not hide it, but unite our hearts and work together to move forward one step at a time.”
(Seoul = News 1)