Written in TRENDS the 8/5/2022 · 23:35 hs
On a day to commemorate all the women who have been mothers at some point in their lives, various celebrities wrote and published their best thoughts on this day.
This was the case of Fernanda Hansen, who shared a text narrating the three losses she has suffered, delivering messages of encouragement to those who live the same as her.
This corresponds to a letter that he sent to The Clinic, but which he also showed on Instagram.
Fernanda Hansen shared an emotional message on Instagram
Through the letter, the journalist began by reporting that “That summer followingnoon in 2016, I took the second (pregnancy test), hoping for a positive that would confirm a brother for my daughter. And it was a clear positive.”
In addition, he talked regarding the projects he had once his son Gabriel was born.
“By decision of his father, a lover of Peter Gabriel’s music. And although I loved him and I associated him with the Archangel Gabriel, I still smile at myself thinking regarding the reason for his name”, recounted the difficult moment he lived.
“The figures are cruel and I fell into those 3 out of 4 women who lose their pregnancy in the first trimester. There were a few weeks of love and enthusiasm, but it stopped growing. ‘Sorry, no heartbeat,’ they told me at an ultrasound. How those words hurt!!! Because although the figures warn you, the numbers do not feel. ‘And what do I do with his name now?’ I thought. What do I do with all the illusion and psychic and physical energy put into this expected child? How do you chew a pain that is also made invisible by society?”, wrote Fernanda Hansen.
Furthermore, he stated that “The illusion and the image of the future were broken and that hurt. It hurt, period. And my uterus and breasts ached. My soul ached. It hurt, period.”
“She was the mother of a daughter in life, but also of 3 in dreams and in grief. Yes. I have a daughter and 3 gestational losses”, noted on his Instagram account.
To close her publication, the professional wrote that “my daughter Amalia hugs me for everyone. For those who were my wishes, those who remained in the illusion and waiting. She hugs me for those positive tests and the changes they left in my soul and in my body”.
