Nong Dean, the day your mother got married. Has someone told the script what to say?
Nong Dean : I have a consideration. Grandma said that I know. Mother loves me.
When you’re 7 years old, you can’t say this?
DJ Dada: Da can’t talk.
Where did he get this sentence from?
DJ Dada: At first Dada was confused too. Really, in the wedding plans. Da didn’t mean for Dean to get up and say anything. That day with 30 guests
There were 4 tables in total, 3 of my friends had gone, Table 4 had only relatives, and Dean was sitting at that table. Well, the tables are all shy. No one dared to speak. Then Dean picked up the mic and asked to speak.
How do you feel regarding all the words? Because the child’s words came from the feeling that he didn’t need to manipulate?
DJ Dada: Yes, that day I was shocked and surprised. We only see children playing with toys. have fun Believe it or not that day, he said that Jason Pleasing Care My Mom was in tears.
Jason: Every day with Dean. He is also considered to be his English teacher. All this time, do not think that this child’s abilities. When he told him to take care of his mother, tears flowed because he felt that a man had told another man to take care of his mother.
DJ Dada : That day I sat with Jason. And both of them held hands and burst into tears.
The whole sentence that stood and said to mom and Jason that day, how do you think?
Dean: It just came to mind. Every time when I have to say something, when it’s really there I might say it every time, and suddenly it came to my mind.
If today let’s talk regarding your mother and Jason?
Dean: He’s good.
Isn’t Dean jealous of your mother? When your mother gets married Are you jealous of your mother?
Sister Dean: No.
Do you understand what marriage is?
Nong Dean: It’s because the two of them love each other. And Jason and mom are ready to go forward together. No one will back down once more. It’s mom, Jason, and I will go forward with everyone.
How do you tell your child?
DJ Dada: Well, slowly tell him, like the first year we got to know Jason. and started to study At that time, Jason had not moved to Thailand. Will try every time he comes to Thailand to meet his children once. to let him come home Having lunch with Dean, little by little, the first time Jason came to Thailand.
and met him for the first time He still doesn’t know. He thought that his mother’s friend came to visit the house. the first time he met Little Dean, regarding 4 years old, just say hi.
But when we meet often began to become intimate After that, it’s ok to decide. Jason moved to Thailand. The first time was for him to meet often. When Jason moved into our house one day, it gradually got used to Jason. so no problem
Da introduces Dean who Jason is?
DJ Dada: I said it was Jason. didn’t say who it was Because in the past, Nong Dean understood that her mother’s boyfriend was Uncle Ong.
Jason : At first, I thought we’d wait a year to get together and then meet Dean.
DJ Dada : We feel that we want him to know us fully. We were dating for regarding 5 months at that time, so I recommended Dean. And Dean just got home from Grandma’s house and met him, so he suggested.
How do we make our children understand that this person is their mother’s boyfriend?
DJ Dada: It’s natural. Da thinks that if we’re close with our children. Talk to your child regularly, the child will receive it in our being. Then the person who will come to see the mother or is a special person that mother would like to study
like this single mother Some people may feel that when we are in a relationship with someone, we do not want our children to meet a new man. But Da thinks that if we talk to him act like he is a friend like he is our mentor
He will get used to what we know. But have to scan before anyone comes to flirt with us, we haven’t met yet. But one day we are sure that this person will become our boyfriend. We will introduce him.
Are you afraid? If the child is not okay, then what do we do?
DJ Dada: I thought the same thing. At that time, if I asked Da One day we are dating And he’s not okay with our new guy. We have to choose our children first. In our minds we think like this. Da told Jason. when we study He already knew that Da was a single mother.
Nong Dean : My man is fine. but only request Don’t be mean to me, Jason is kind.
DJ Dada: Well, he’s a very generous person. Mother and son, we talk all the time. like he was a friend He can hang around with Da. Talk to friends, come to work, meet people, we want our children to know our friends as well. He felt more open.
Is it difficult to change your status from friend to boyfriend and then to husband in front of Dean’s eyes?
Jason: Not at all. They were compatible from the beginning.
DJ Dada : Good luck to Da, the day Jason started coming in. The day he met Dean, there was no obstacle to quarrel. or he will be jealous of his mother No, he understands He is a child who understands his mother very much.
Then one day Jason walked in and he was ok and luckily Jason loved the kids too, he took care of Dean. If Da goes to make a list unfold
At night, he might have him take Dean to bed. Today it has become teaching English. Teach Dean numbers more than Da. Da is a person who teaches children not to be impatient.
Da and Jason have decided to live together. So how did we agree to take care of Dean?
DJ Dada : Well, let’s talk. For now, Jason will focus on taking care of studying. because we do not focus on academic matters like to focus on children’s activities But here he is a person who likes to study very much. I can’t do this. Dean must know. Dean has to read the book. must add numbers as
Why are you serious regarding Dean’s studies?
Jason: It’s very important because 40 kids who study online are like Dean. Not everyone who loves and cares stands by his side. then he wants to be that person And it’s like hiding in.
Because now Dean is a stepdaughter. And wants to find the best future for this person and be by his side all the time, more than any other child. in order to teach him to study online and study alone
married now Would you like your child to change his pronoun Jason?
DJ Dada : Talk to Jason when he’s ready to talk regarding it. Now he’ll call Jason first. which Da did not force the child to call the father or anything Well, he understood that this was Jason. But if one day he wants to change, it’s Dean’s matter.
Nong Dean : But Grandma forced me to call Dad.
DJ Dada : And does Nong Dean want to call you?
Nong Dean : No, I know Father Fei is my father. But Jason is not a real father, stepfather.
From a family of 3, would you like to be a family of 4?
DJ Dada: Do you want your mother to have a younger sister?
Nong Dean : I would like to have a sister. because he has a brother
Jason: I want to have a lot, but it all depends on Dada.
DJ Dada: Pleasure, he’s already pampered. He is a sweet, romantic person.
So when are we planning to see our granddaughter?
DJ Dada: Well, now I have a craving. I don’t want to now. At 41 years old, I’m afraid that I’ll be too old soon.
Nong Dean : If the mother gave birth Mother’s child is mother’s child I am your mother’s child But the other mother’s child is Jason’s. It’s a different father, but I can take it.
Has your mother given you a name?
DJ Dada : No, Dean.
Nong Dean: Name Kaew, it’s a sweet name. But if it’s a young man named Din
DJ Dada: Actually, I didn’t plan, it’s okay to come.
So now let nature go?
DJ Dada: Let go, but if we want to have it right now, we’re in two minds. Maybe next year, go to the doctor once more because next year 42 will have a younger brother or not. If there is, there would be more scientific methods than natural.
Married for a month now, why not register?
DJ Dada : In the process. We just know that it’s registered with foreigners. We understand that at the wedding, a week before the event, we’re going to the district office. and then go register
Finally, there are many subtleties. Now, he has to go to the embassy and file a complaint. Submit documents to verify that you have never been married. Never been a person who has been prosecuted before.
It’s a lot of details The documents are ready, we go to the district office. The district office said it took regarding 1-2 months to see if the documents were real or not.
Really, my heart wants to take notes?
DJ Dada : The case has been submitted.
Little Dean, talk to your mom and Jason. What was it like when they were together?
Nong Dean : Very sweet. This person went over the mother.
DJ Dada: Hug the baby, don’t think too far. is at home we play together Let’s say we’re watching TV. Nong Dean likes to jump on the side. Jason, he acted like Dean jumped to hug his mother. become a hug group
Da agrees to go to Korea?
DJ Dada: No, right now, the main thing is definitely in Thailand. But in the future, I have a plan with Jason that I will buy a house in Seoul in the future.
Not planning on going over there?
DJ Dada: I don’t have any plans, he plans to come to Thailand. Now start doing business in Thailand. But in the next 5 years, I would like to buy another house in Korea.
Is there a problem with Jason’s family that he moved to Thailand?
DJ Dada : No problem, his family is a westerner. He went to America when he was a child, when he was 18-19 he moved out of his parents’ house and kept updating what was going on.
