2023-10-01 21:07:05
Translated by: Azza Youssef
Your children look to you to see how you deal with the outside world in different situations, and regardless of the instructions you give to your children, your actions remain in front of them the thing that they will learn from you. Here are 5 lessons that your children will gain when they watch you and follow your actions with others, as mentioned by the American “All Prodad” website. :
the wife
The way you treat your wife in front of your son is the way he will treat his wife later. Do you respect and appreciate her? Are you talking regarding her behind her back? Your son is watching you, so be the role model you would like him to be.
Adversity
What is your reaction to adversity, do you give up, do you blame others, do you look for solutions and opportunities amidst difficulties, are you humble enough to ask for help from those around you? It’s okay for your son to see you struggle in life so he can learn from you.
Anger
Do you scream and lose control of yourself, but you ask your son not to do that? Keeping your anger under control is certainly a difficult matter, but it is extremely important when you know that someone is watching you and taking you as a model for what he will do later in his life.
Those around you
Your son watches your behavior with those around you, your neighbors, and your family, and how you care for others and take care of them as you care for yourself, and then he imitates your actions. It is one of the most beautiful gifts you give to your child and to the world.
With the self
Are you kind to yourself as you are to people? Do you care and value yourself? As your son sees you treating yourself, he will be treated the same in the future.
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